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Jane Kennedy's avatar

So well written as usual. We are all so boundaried up (love boundaries don't get me wrong) but we struggle to find the sweet spot of personal and communal care. What do we do? I'm so interested in community building right now but don't know how. Just acknowledging it's clunky and awkward but worth it. Esp those of us babies from unhealthy faith communities who don't what it to be like that but still need the casseroles.

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Jackson's avatar

Sorry but I had to stop reading — for self care reasons — when I got to the picture of the suboptimally stacked dishwasher. Please, for the love of dogs Shane, we need trigger warnings on such triggering images.

(But actually this is a very good read and I’m going to eat away my third order feelings with icecream)

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